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Monday, 13 January 2020

A Note On The Australian Wildfires

Monday, 13 January 2020
A Note On The Australian Wildfires | Jackie O My

     Perhaps you haven't been following the devastating brush fires that are blazing across Australia at the moment; perhaps you have. I'm certainly no journalist, and I feel ill prepared to pass on any knowledge about something that is so important. But currently, from what I understand, New South Wales and Victoria (among other states) are fighting some of the worst brush fires in recent history. Of course, Australia is no stranger to wildfires, but there seems something different about this one to me; this fire brings up feelings of impending doom for the earth. As Greta Thunberg said, "Our house is on fire".

Currently, 27 people have been killed and 15.6 million acres of forest has been burned. I cannot imagine the number of animals, from mammals to insects, that have been lost, not to mention the impact of smoke on the environment. I've been keenly interested in footage of efforts to save the animals, and I've seen some truly beautiful acts of bravery, selflessness, and trust that surpassed the language of species. But it seems there needs to be more; Australia and its inhabitants still need help.

What you can do

Please, if you're able, consider donating to WWF Australia, one of my particular favourite charities. You could also help by donating to the Australian Red Cross or the New South Wales Rural Fire Brigade, who are risking their lives to fight to blaze and rescue injured animals.

Together we can make a difference.
Friday, 9 August 2019

Shop Here: Montrose + George General Store

Friday, 9 August 2019
Shop Here: Montrose + George General Store | Jackie O My

     I recently took a trip to one of my favorite little shops, Montrose + George General Store. I've loved visiting this boutique since it was founded a few years ago, one of the first shops to reform our historic downtown area. Now established as a local Favourite and situated in a new, larger location, this shop is an aesthetic lover's dream and the place to buy casual-chic clothing.

Monday, 3 June 2019

The Benefits Of Writing In A Journal

Monday, 3 June 2019
The Benefits Of Writing In A Journal

     I recently sat down to read through a stack of my old journals. Thrilling, right? The dates spanned the last five years, particularly tough times in my life. I anticipated it would be a dreary activity, but was surprised to feel a surge of pride when I closed the last book. I hadn't realised how much I had changed in as little as five years! I started to consider all the good journaling can do. It can really be an act of self-care. If you're looking for a reason to pick up a pen, here are some of the benefits of writing in a journal.
Tuesday, 23 April 2019

Mistakes I Made While Blogging Last Year

Tuesday, 23 April 2019
woman in Spring floral dress

     I spent forever trying to come up with the perfect intro to this post. Something inspiring, witty and down to earth to show how much I've grown creatively during my time writing. But honestly, I have no idea how to preface this article, and since the whole point of this post is transparency, it would be ridiculous not to admit that. So here's a quick rundown of the facts:

I've been blogging over 5 years, but Jackie O My is only two years old (and my longest running blog). I've been totally hands-on with my past blogs, and I've never been afraid to try new things or totally throw myself into a project. This has resulted in tons of trial and error. While I'm sure more "okay, that didn't work" moments will come after this, for the time being, I'm here to share some of the mistakes I've made so far.

Saturday, 20 April 2019

Wellness Diary: Keeping Resolutions & Free People's New Made To Move Collection

Saturday, 20 April 2019
Wellness Diary: Keeping Resolutions & Free People's New Made To Move Collection | Jackie O My
Pictured: High-rise bike shorts from Free People & yummy fresh panzanella ingredients on DesignLoveFest.
      So, we're almost halfway through the new year. You made your healthy resolutions in January, and for a while you did great, but now your motivation is dwindling and you're finding it a bit harder to stick to your goal plans. Sound familiar? I know it does to me!

This year, my resolutions are to eat out less and practice yoga regularly, but lately (okay, consistently), I've been struggling to keep it up. If you're like me and need a little pep talk to keep those goals, here are five ways you can keep your new year's resolutions going strong.


Start with a solid goal


It's time to step back and assess whether or not your goal is an attainable one. Maybe you set the bar a bit too high, or maybe you just weren't specific enough. That's okay! It's alright to modify something that isn't working for you. The foundation of building a good habit is starting with a resolution that is simple and realistic, and making a specific plan to complete it. I always say it's best to start with a smaller step and build on it. Instead of vowing to go to the gym every single day, why not start with promising to work out every Sunday and Wednesday at first?

Vent to a friend


When we're struggling with something, it can be tempting to bottle it up and put on a brave face, but it's totally okay to get support from your friends and loved ones! Let them know you're trying hard to make changes and vent out your frustrations. You might just feel lighter.

Track your progress


Tracking your progress is by far the best way to make a new habit stick. I use the Productive app on my phone to see where I need to focus my efforts more. I also use Pacifica, which has an awesome healthy habits tracker.

Celebrate small victories


Treat yourself when you hit milestones in your goals. Rewards can be anything from your fave food to buying yourself a little gift; the important thing is acknowledging your progress and associating it with something nice.

Be patient


Be patient with both the process and yourself. Building a habit is a long-term endeavour, so don't beat yourself up if you go off track or skip your healthy habit for a few days. This will only lead to major discouragement and zap your motivation. Instead, stay positive and give yourself time to rest if you need it. Have the same compassion for yourself that you'd have for a friend. Remember, it's about the journey, not the outcome!

With these tips and a little work, you'll have your resolutions back on track in no time!

Relevant links:


Smashed Potato Appetizer - Potatoes are my fave veggie, so I had to include this recipe.
The Ultimate Veggie Sandwich - Hummus, artichoke, and greens.
What's The Deal With Gua Sha? - How you can practice this self-care ritual.
Diet & Depression: What Research Tells Us - A very well done article from GOOP.
Knowing The Best Workout Time For You - Make workouts easier with considerate planning.
Panzanella Recipe - I've never heard of this dish, but now I want it.


Free People's new workout wear is on my radar:


Wellness Diary: Keeping Resolutions & Free People's New Made To Move Collection | Jackie O My
On The Radar Bra - Free People.
Wellness Diary: Keeping Resolutions & Free People's New Made To Move Collection | Jackie O My
Cheek To Cheek Pants.
Wellness Diary: Keeping Resolutions & Free People's New Made To Move Collection | Jackie O My
Boxer Cami.
How are your resolutions coming? Let me know below!
How To Keep Your New Year's Resolutions Going Strong - Jackie O My
Wednesday, 3 April 2019

A Quick Guide To Refreshing Your Room For Spring With UO

Wednesday, 3 April 2019
A Quick Guide To Refreshing Your Room For Spring With UO | Jackie O My

     Let's be real: when's the last time you did a big Spring clean? With Summer fast approaching, time is running out to start the season fresh. Still, a big bedroom overhaul is exhausting. Who has the time?

Each year, I make sure to do a good Spring clean, paring down the stuff I don't need, and organizing what I do. I have my process down, so it requires only a couple of hours. And the best part? Replacing all those home decor elements that are no longer working for me with things I've had my eye on! Ready to liven things up? Here's the quick guide to refreshing your bedroom for spring, Urban Outfitters style.

Let's get to work.


Let the fresh air in.

First thing's first: Open all the windows wide and let in the fresh air. You're going to need light to work. And speaking of fresh, my absolute favorite thing about cleaning my room is fresh sheets and duvet. If your old bedding has seen better days, it might be time to replace it.

Bring in some nature.

Now that your room is nice and bright, bring in a potted plant or two to really liven up the place. It will feel like a whole new room. There's just something so clean about plants, no?

plant vases and baskets
Shop: Macrame Planter Wall HangingWyn Woven Planter BasketSleepy Kitten Planter.

Pare down.

Sort through everything you have, working on one part of the room at a time. Put things into three categories: keep, donate/give away, and if it's a complete lost cause, throw away. If you're overwhelmed, try the Marie Kondo method: Start with clothes, then follow with books, paper, and sentimental items last.

Deep clean.

It's time for arguably the least enjoyable task: get the areas that seldom see any dusting. Wipe down everything possible, including light switches and door frames. This is also a good time to throw rarely cleaned textiles like rugs and curtains in the washer (but make sure to read the wash instructions first!). Give your room a quick vacuum to finish up.

Change your walls.

If your space needs a fresh coat of paint but you rent, the time of wall color oppression is over. You can buy the coolest peel-and-stick wallpapers to completely redesign your apartment, bedroom, whatever! Just peel off to remove.

Peel and stick wallpaper murals
Shop: Pink Current WallpaperBathing Beauties WallpaperFade Away Wall Mural.

Invest in some wall art.

Even if you're not up for an entire wall overhaul, one the quickest ways to update the look and feel of your room is to hang some wall art. Whether you frame one statement piece, hang a vibrant tapestry, or tack a bunch of photos and magazine clippings up for inspiration, trust me; your room will have a whole new vibe.

Colorful art prints
Shop: Take It Easy TapestryAlja Horvat Art PrintThe Colour Study Cecily Art Print.

Clean your closet.

This step really requires a guide all its own, but if you can handle it, go for it! Take everything from your closet and go through your wardrobe, sorting into those three piles again. Put the keepers back in. Bonus points for hanging your clothes by color.

Minimize your makeup.

Get rid of anything you don't/won't use or anything past its expiration. Mascara and eyeliner last two to three months, foundation is good for six to twelve months, and lipstick and eyeshadow are usable for a year or two.

Think about making some planet-friendly changes.

So many big name grocery and takeout companies are moving away from using unnecessary paper and plastic utensils. It's a great time to grab some of these super cute reusable food storage options.


Bento boxes and reusable chopsticks
Shop: Bento BoxesLife Without Plastic Juco Sandwich BagNoodle Bowl & Chopstick Set.

Voila! Now you're ready to relax in your fresh new space. Enjoy!


Do you take part in a big spring clean? Let me know below!

*This post is not sponsored and all opinions are my own.
Monday, 11 February 2019

Your Ultimate Gift Guide For Valentines, Galentines & Everything In Between

Monday, 11 February 2019
Red crochet lip pillow
Photo from UO.
     Valentine's Day is almost here, and with all the adorable heart-themed products I've seen around, I couldn't resist making a shopping list filled with the best Valentine's Day gifts of 2019. I've gathered the cutest gifts for your girlfriends, mom or even yourself on lovers day, from splurge to steal. Check them out below!
Monday, 14 January 2019

Wellness Diary: 01/14/19

Monday, 14 January 2019
Wellness Diary: 01/14/19 | Jackie O My
Delicious nutrient packed smoothie. Photo by Kate La Vie.
     This post is a bit inspired by another blogger I love. Kate La Vie wrote a great, detailed post about nutrients and smoothies she loves, and it was such perfect timing.

I've been researching healthier food options this week. I'm in a bad place, nutritionally and physically. A self-professed french fry addict, I barely have the energy lately to climb a flight of stairs, and I'm so past blaming a pending cold for my lack of strength.
Saturday, 29 December 2018

Wellness Diary: Habits For Mental Clarity In The New Year

Saturday, 29 December 2018
Wellness Diary: Habits For Mental Clarity In The New Year | Jackie O My
The Birth Of Venus, Botticelli.

     We're entering the new year in just a few days, and to mark the occasion, I'd like to write a Wellness Diary post about a huge but often overlooked part of overall wellness: mental health. You may have noticed my absence from the blogosphere lately. I've been taking some time away to focus on my own mental health. I've struggled with anxiety for many years, although it isn't something I open up about a lot on social media. I try to keep my personal life and my blog life separate for the most part, although I appreciate the strong women out there who bare all on their blogs, including their struggles with anxiety disorders. I'm so thankful for their posts on the topic, so I decided there was no better time to share my own tips on living well while taking care of your mental space. Here are a few things I learned while attending wellness classes over the winter season.
Monday, 8 October 2018

My No-Shop Progress: Did I Curb My Spending?

Monday, 8 October 2018
Free People Floral Dress

     It's been ages since I vowed to spend less and cherish my current wardrobe more. To be honest, I've been putting off writing this post for the past month, because my results are less than spectacular. However, I'm now laying out my no-shop progress for all to see. Read on to find out if I was able to curb my spending habit.

Did I change my habits?


Short answer: nope.

Although I did spend slightly less overall, I did not decrease my shopping, and perhaps spent even longer browsing online shops than usual. One of my biggest reasons for cutting down on shopping was time-saving, but knowing I had less money budgeted to spend, I found myself dedicated to finding a great bargain to justify spending anything at all.

The beginning of my downfall was the reintroduction of the Weekly Wow deals at Sephora. I'm rarely a impressed by a sale, but oh my gosh. Things I'd been eyeing were down to half price. It was like losing money if I didn't snag the deal.

I quickly discovered a loophole: exchanging. It started off innocently enough. I needed to make a return on a product at Sephora, but could only have store credit. Not wanting to "waste my money", of course I had to pick out something nice. So when the Weekly Wow deals started, I figured maybe I had a few more things kicking around I wasn't using. Soon I was spending actual money again to make up the difference.

My folly highlights the importance of airtight, clear cut and specific rules. I suspected I was a bit vague with my rules, so I expected to find loopholes eventually. If you participate in a no-shop, I recommend making a plan for what you will do with store credits and gift cards. One great option is to decide beforehand that you will only use them to buy gifts (not for yourself).

So what will I do differently?


If you've tried a no-shop and made some purchases anyway, I totally think it's best not to just give up altogether! Long-term lifestyle changes take time; the only way to learn to act differently is to make consistent small efforts, again and again. 

Personally, I've already come up with a few tweaks for my no shop rules:

I already only buy items I have listed as "needs", but I've come to understand that "should buy eventually" doesn't necessarily mean need to purchase right now. I've also decided I have all the makeup I need for the time being, and won't be purchasing any more unless I run out.

I'm going to be using the clothing I have in my closet that I've never worn for some outfit posts coming up, and I'm really excited to wear these things.

Have you taken part in a shopping ban lately? Would you? Let me know below!
Monday, 17 September 2018

Road-trips & Comparison In Fashion Blogging

Monday, 17 September 2018
Road-trips & Comparison In Fashion Blogging | Jackie O My

Road-trips & Comparison In Fashion Blogging | Jackie O My

     Totally just kidding, because I've never been on a road trip in my life. Far from snapping pictures in gorgeous, exotic locations, this photography adventure saw me taking photos in a drive-through and wondering if this is rock bottom, blogger-wise.

Remaining positive and confident in the fashion-blogging world is tricky. There's always someone (or thousands of someones) with better equipment, more talent, a better wardrobe...the list is endless. That's a lot to compare yourself to, and there are times I feel under constant pressure to step up my game. Sometimes more than possible.

It's useful to remind myself to take a step back and breathe. This is not a competition, and instead of envying other girls that find success with blogging, I should be applauding them and lifting them up. After all, they prove it's possible to follow your passions and find success with them, even if you start off with no experience. I received some helpful advice recently that I've been trying to internalize: Don't aim to be an expert, just aim to be better than you were.
Wednesday, 15 August 2018

Wellness Diary: A Beginner's Guide To Healthy Eating

Wednesday, 15 August 2018
    I've been talking a lot about skincare lately and it's gotten me thinking about the health of my skin as a whole. Your skin is actually a really good indicator of your overall health, so dryness, dullness and other skin issues are definitely not something to be overlooked or covered up. Don't get me wrong: I love creams and masks, but there's only so much topical treatments can do for your skin in the long-term. Now I'm focusing on getting a healthy glow from the inside-out by making sure I'm getting all the nutrients my skin needs.

In my past wellness diary posts, I focused on the importance of exercise, and spoke a bit about moderation when eating unhealthily; the focus of this post will be healthier eating options. Remember, I'm totally clueless when it comes to nutrition. I eat out daily and am a proud french fry connoisseur. I do love the idea of health and nutrition, but in the end, I reach for comfort foods almost every time. So, is there a balance that can be struck?


Wellness Diary: A Beginner's Guide To Healthy Eating | Jackie O My
Long Beach chef Ella Calderon fixes an array of colourful ingredients. Photo from UO Blog.

It doesn't have to be boring!


In an interview with Urban Outfitters Blog, Long Beach chef Ella Calderon shares brunch recipes that can only be described as beautiful and packed with nutrition. I really recommend that post, because even if you're not a fan of her sparkling grapefruit and rose water drink, you won't be able to deny any longer that healthy food has the potential to be colorful, vibrant, and delicious. Think about the kinds of flavors you love; becoming accustomed to healthier meals is a matter of finding the dishes you love, and creating those tastes in a healthier way.

A few craving swaps to consider:


If you're like me, you will need the most basic tips for simple and easy transitions to healthier options. Luckily, lifestyle and food bloggers have us covered.

Each and every night, I have sugar cravings right before bed. Imagine how much more fulfilling it would be to whip up pancakes using ingredients like oats, banana, strawberry jam and coconut flakes instead of reaching for a handful of snack-size chocolate bars, which offer very little in the way of actual hunger fulfilment. Try this Guilt-Free Strawberry Coconut Pancakes recipe by the lovely Kate La Vie for your next sugar fix.

The second recipe I'm totally on board with is for something that I (and so many others) can absolutely never resist - pizza. Design Love Fest created a homemade, cast-iron skillet version of the tempting dish using powerfully healthy ingredients like avocado, red onion, and arugula. It's a way better option than delivery if you can't resist a cheesy pie this weekend.

Of course, you can find a healthier version of practically any food, but what if you don't have the time or energy to cook? Even with well-thought-out food plans and a fridge full of fresh ingredients, sometimes you just want a snack. Here are a few ways to eat healthy on the go.


Wellness Diary: A Beginner's Guide To Healthy Eating | Jackie O My
Photos from Kate La Vie and Design Love Fest.

Low-effort snack ideas:


1. Fresh Blueberries and strawberries make a sweet snack alternative to sugary treats.
2. Sandwiches packed with double-the-veggies, like tomatoes, onion, peppers and lettuce can never go wrong.
3. Rice is such a great impromptu meal option, because it's quick, low-cost, and can be mixed with veggies and poultry/meat for protein and nourishment. Recipes also vary wildly, which offers variety.
4. Bananas are great on the go, in a bowl on your desk or in your bag.


Some inspiring links:


Grilled Chicken BBQ Salad - A salad that will actually leave you satisfied.
A Week Of Healthy Breakfasts - These can be prepped in advance!
Summer Fruit Salad - This colorful salad from Honestly YUM is so pretty and festive!
Grilled-Cheese Salad - Another colorful salad, this one with chunks of grilled cheese. 
Honey Hi's Five Principles Of Eating Well - Some Healthy Eating Tips from an L.A. based cafe.


What's your fave healthy recipe? I'd love to hear below!
Wednesday, 11 July 2018

My Shopping Habit & How You Can Join Me On A No-Shop

Wednesday, 11 July 2018
My Shopping Addiction & How You Can Join Me On A No-Shop | Jackie O My

     Shopping has always been something of a hobby for me. When I was young, my mother would pick me up from school each day and take me to the mall. We'd get ice-cream and browse; handbags for her, Barbies for me. I still feel so comfortable at that mall. I've often referred to it as my "second home", a safe place in a world constantly changing.
Saturday, 16 June 2018

How To Create A Beautiful Instagram Feed

Saturday, 16 June 2018
How To Create A Beautiful Instagram Feed | Jackie O My

     Ah, Instagram! I've had a love-hate relationship with this platform for years. I've scrubbed my Instagram account and re-branded around a dozen times, struggling to create a cohesive theme that summarizes who I am to a world full of strangers. However, I'm happy to say I've made my peace with the app, and am finally proud of my account (although a few more followers wouldn't hurt, hint hint).
Saturday, 5 May 2018

Wellness Diary: 05/05/18

Saturday, 5 May 2018
fresh produce
Just love this colorful photo of fresh foods from DesignLoveFest's article on staying inspired to cook.

     It's official: I'm one month into my fitness journey. I hope you are closer to reaching your wellness goals than I am because I have not done as swimmingly as I had hoped to.

If I've learned one thing this month, it's that major lifestyle and diet changes are not easy. It's not a simple matter of deciding not to be unhealthy and saying no to your cravings at each meal time; it's avoiding that unhealthy habit dozens of times each day until you finally, begrudgingly, give in and order a cheeseburger. Afterwards, I'm left with a slight shame and a half-hearted promise to eat broccoli the next day.

Sunday, 1 April 2018

Wellness Diary: 01/04/18

Sunday, 1 April 2018
Avocado Toast Salad

     I recently read an article on Man Repeller in which Amelia Diamond described finally learning to grocery shop at the age of 29. At 26, I consider Amelia #healthgoals, as I'm still putting off "getting healthy". I may give off the impression of an active, healthy person on social media, but the truth is, I rarely exercise, and eat more takeaway than nutritious meals. In fact, my diet is more than likely 50% french fry. Now my body (and mood) has been paying the toll.

I need to get serious about my body's wellness.

Tuesday, 20 March 2018

How To Make Your Bedroom A Bohemian Sanctuary

Tuesday, 20 March 2018
How To Make Your Bedroom A Bohemian Sanctuary
Photo sources: 12.

     A bedroom is a place of refuge from the outside world; as such, I believe it should reflect the personality of the individual. A bohemian at heart, I like to opt for a comfortable space with a lived-in vibe. The bohemian room is artistic, eclectic, and free-spirited. Comfort is of the utmost importance; this a place to really let your hair down.
Wednesday, 15 November 2017

24 Simple Ways To Practice Self-Care

Wednesday, 15 November 2017
24 Simple Ways To Practice Self-Care

     This week, I've been thinking about all the ways daily life can take a toll on us. Let's face it: life is never perfectly calm. More often than not, we've got a lot of things going on at once. So how can we ever be truly well if we're stressing all the time? The trick is taking time out to do something for ourselves to alleviate that tension. Wanna learn how? Here are 24 simple ways you can practice self-care.
Friday, 6 October 2017

Simple Ways To Practice Minimalism

Friday, 6 October 2017
Minimal Plant

     Although I'm far from a minimalist, I've always been curious about the minimalist lifestyle. It sounds so wonderfully freeing to be able to live with less; some are even able to fit all their possessions in a few boxes! I remain a collector at heart, though, and let's be real: there's no way I'm fitting all my clothes in a couple of suitcases.
Friday, 21 July 2017

You Are Beautiful

Friday, 21 July 2017
white flowers in green plant

     Remember My Pale Skin's inspirational video about the unrealistic standard of beauty? It is one of my all time favorite videos on YouTube, and it continues to move me every time I watch it. I watch it when I feel insecure, and am reminded of two great truths about beauty. The first is that there is a huge double standard when it comes to appearance; if you're deemed unattractive, it's like a fatal fault in your character, one that is your responsibility to fix for the benefit of others. If you're attractive, however, you're perceived as fake and conceited.

The second truth is that every woman, no matter how beautiful, thin, or popular, is subjected to this same harsh criticism. There really is no winning. There seems to be an entire world of people out there that want you to feel bad about yourself. These people want you to feel inferior and insecure. The nasty comments on your Instagram pictures are not coming from a place of truth, but rather from the hope of hurting you as much as possible simply because they can. As if your appearance has anything to do with your right to feel happiness.